It’s a simple but hard lesson to understand. We… tend to stay in contact with those who just drive us madly crazy- in the insane way- as well.
Why do we do this? It’s pointless, and there’s no benefit anyway.
It’s a simple but hard lesson to understand. We… tend to stay in contact with those who just drive us madly crazy- in the insane way- as well.
Why do we do this? It’s pointless, and there’s no benefit anyway.
I totally agree with you. I know that there’s something inside me that feels like I need to know how my mother is doing, but in truth I am so much better off not talking to her.
Oooh I take it that there’s a misunderstanding or bad blood between you two. As my dad says, time will tell. Eventually you’ll hear something from her or about her later on. Best wishes hon!
~C
Lol…I have quit talking to her except for occasions when it’s absolutely necessary. Yes, there is very bad blood. We were discussing an incident when my father broke a bat on my back, and I was finally removed from my home. She actually said he couldn’t have broken a bat on my back, mind you she was standing there when it happened. I said that CPS doesn’t normally remove a former CPS worker (my mom a yr earlier) & a retired cops kid from their custody. She started to speak & I said no, you always tell my to say how I completely feel. You’re going to be quiet & listen. I said a pleasant Fuck You, and hung up the phone.
Wow… No offense, but your mother sounds like one of those over-controlling types, with no disregard to your well-being, but to cover her ass and probably your father’s too. I don’t blame you for wanting to stay away from that environment, hon. (O .O)